Introducing Grilled Grandma Linda
What is a Grilled Grandma? A Grilled Grandma is a grandma whom I've grilled with some grandma-related questions, and she's graciously responded with answers and photos. Here is Grilled Grandma Linda:
How many children do you have? I am blessed to have four children—two of mine and two of my hubby’s.
How many grandchildren? What are their ages? We have two amazing grandchildren: Jaxon is 3 ½ and Makiya will be three in January.
Any great grandchildren? Not yet!
What do your grandchildren call you? When my granddaughter was just learning to talk she used to call me “Mama” but now I’m Grandma to both of them.
After the initial elation, what was your first concern upon hearing you would soon be a grandmother? Concern? I suppose the only concern is that I live too far away from them. We hope to remedy that in a couple of years when we retire though.
How often do you get to see your grandchildren? Not often enough! I try to see them every couple of months. They grow and change so quickly I hate to miss any more than I have to while we’re living so far away.
What is the best thing about being a grandma? Oh my, I’m not sure how to answer that. Being a grandma is the greatest joy in my life! I love getting down on the floor and playing with them, reading to them, snuggling with them, and seeing the world through their young eyes. It’s also a joy to watch my daughter in the role of mommy!
What is the most challenging part of being a grandma? For now, it’s just the distance between us and that I can’t see them more often. Thank goodness for the miracles of email and Skype!
What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house? Just this past summer we had our grandson with us and we set up a big inflatable pool in the backyard. We had a blast watching him play in that pool and, later, running through the sprinkler with Granddad! In the few days he was with us our yard looked like a totally different place than it normally does because it had toys scattered all over. I was in paradise.
What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house? I like to read to them. It’s important to me that they grow up with an appreciation for books and reading and they’re both well on the way toward that. Aside from that, any time I’m with them is my favorite time no matter what we are doing.
How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits? Skype and phone calls. I love answering my phone and hearing a little voice say “Hi Grandma!” In fact I’ve saved a voice mail that I listen to often. It’s the best cure for a bad day I know of!
One time, a few days after our last visit, my daughter brought her laptop upstairs and let Makiya know we were going to Skype. Her response “Oh, I’ve been waiting for this for days!” tickled my heart.
What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren? As I said I hope they grow up with a love of reading. It’s also important to me that they have a sense of where they fit in this world and history and legacy is also important.
What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you? Love.
What is one thing you wish you had learned earlier as a grandparent? Hmmm. In the beginning I was worried they wouldn’t know I was their grandma because I didn’t get to see them every day. That was something I needn’t have been concerned about.
What one bit of advice would you give a new grandma? Enjoy! Spend as much time with them as possible! It’s the best experience in the world!
Do you have a website or blog? What is it about? Yes, I have a blog called A Slice of Life Writing where I write about a variety of topics ranging from adoption (I am an adoptee), memoir writing, family, gardening, life in general, and of course grandchildren.
This grilling will now be permanently placed in the Grilled Grandmas Hall of Fame—AKA the Grilled Grandma Archives—under, fittingly, Grilled Grandma: Linda.
Dear Readers: If you'd like to nominate a grandma for grilling—yourself or any other grandma—please e-mail me her first name and e-mail address and I'll take care of the rest. Thank you!
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Reader Comments (9)
I follow Linda regularly and loved to read all these details. What a fun site you've got here. It's my sadness that I have no grandchildren so I console myself with grand nieces and nephews.
Hi Grandma Linda,
You have gorgeous Grandbabies!
How wonderful that you have a great relationship with your Grandchildren despite the long distance. I think Skype is one of the best things ever invented for Grandparents. Sounds like you do, too.
I hope your retirement move comes sooner rather than later...and that your Grandchildren live somewhere warm:) Now I'm headed straight over to check out your blog. Very nice to meet you and thanks for sharing.
Pretty Grandma equals pretty grandchildren...you and yours sure are.
Your happiness with your grandchildren shows in your face in these pictures and in theirs. Sorry you can't be with them as often as you like but glad you have plans to change that in the future. Do enjoy your day as Grilled Grandma, good to meet you.
Hi Grandma Linda!
Welcome, Linda, to the Grilled Grandma's Club! Your grand children are beautiful. I'm a long distance "Nonna" who hopes to retire closer to her grandchildren one day, too.
Being a grand parent is the best gift life can give us!
Hi Linda and welcome to Grilled Grandmas! Your grandchildren are gorgeous! I know you must be so proud. Enjoy your special day.
Terri
Congratulations and welcome to Grilled Grandmas! Everyone is right -- your grandchildren are beautiful and you obviously worship them. This Grandma thing really is the best job ever! I'm off to check your blog. Enjoy your day in the spotlight and I sure hope you get to move soon! Mine is exactly 1 mile away and it is awesome!
Linda, you are so right about "grandma" being the best experience in the world. Your grands are beautiful, and it's clear that you cherish them. Hope you get to be near them very soon.
Thanks for such a warm reception all! It's great to be in the company of other grandmas--we seem to speak the same language when talking about our grandma-hood. "best experience in the world", "best job ever", "best gift life can give us".
Nonnie Kelly, I agree with you comment about Skype. I don't know how long-distance grandmas ever survived with out!