These are my dreams for my grandson as he grows:
That he always shows gratitude, curiosity, strength, forgiveness.
That he exercises his body and mind in equal proportions.
That he laughs daily, with others, at himself.
That he loves himself, is proud of himself, treats himself kindly, compassionately.
That he shows kindness and compassion to others, to animals, to nature.
That he turns a deaf ear to intimidation and ignorance when it comes to thinking and doing what's good, what's right.
That he understands the value of patience, compromise, silence, restraint.
That he always loves learning ... and teaching.
That he uses his hands for hugging not hurting.
That he accepts responsibility.
That he does his part.
That he has -- and is -- a true and loyal friend.
That he makes time for silliness, pleasure, play.
That he appreciates and cultivates strong bonds with his siblings, from youth to old age.
That he embraces productivity and pursues careers that matter to him, to the world.
That always -- always -- people are more important to him than things.
That he keeps his word.
That home, family, tradition matter.
That he communicates -- in small ways, large ways and when it may not seem to matter ... but does.
That he never fails to see the beauty, the delightful, the admirable, the awesome.
That he never fails to see those less fortunate.
That he takes nothing for granted.
That his fears and nerves lead him to greatness not despair.
That he appreciates differences of opinion, culture, ideas.
That he has abundant supporters, cheering him on. When he can't hear them cheering, that he doesn't hesitate to cheer for himself.
That he finds a loving forever mate and together they create a loving forever family.
That he makes a positive difference in the world, be it as simple as a smile to a passing stranger or as complex as contributing to global change.
That he never breaks his mother's heart. Or his father's.
That he builds people up, not tear them down.
That he's slow to anger, quick to reason.
That he leads more than he follows, listens more than he speaks.
That his body, mind and soul stay strong, growing and bending but never breaking.
That he dances, sings, eats, enjoys, cries, giggles, dreams without worrying what others may think.
That he sets goals far and high and reaches them ... then goes beyond them.
That adversity makes him stronger not hopeless.
That he uses the words I will more often than I'll try or I can't.
That his heart is gentle and generous yet strong and resilient.
That he keeps an open mind.
That the words misogynist, racist, hateful, liar, addict, or bully are never used to describe him.
That he never, ever doubts he's loved.
That the love he gives in return is never in doubt.
That he travels.
That he dares.
That he excels.
That he lives.
That he depends on God's guidance, comfort, forgiveness, love always, in all ways.
That all who touch his life help make these dreams a reality.
More importantly, that he makes these dreams a reality. Plus every single dream of his own.
Holiday question of the day:
If you could give one gift that can't be wrapped -- the realization of a dream, goal, wish, trait -- to one person, what would you give and to whom would you give it?
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