Take a picture -- it lasts longer
As a parent, you'll occasionally have moments when all is right with the world, at least within the confines of your own little world. Everyone in the family is getting along, the sun is shining in your hearts, the love is flowing, the future looks bright.
That's when you need to pull out the camera. Even if there's no major event, no happy holiday, no striking of a pose, no magical reason to record the moment, I urge you to take a picture.
Really. Take a picture. Because that moment won't last.
All of a sudden, with no warning whatsoever, the dark clouds will roll in and the ground will shift then crumble beneath your feet.
I know. I've been there. Several times. In fact, I offer that advice as Jim and I sit atop a pile of rubble, looking at each other, shaking our heads, asking "How did we get here?"
We'd been down this road before, thought the lessons had been learned, thought we'd never have to pass this way again.
Yet here we sit, dumbfounded, asking "WTF?"
And our daughter just shrugs her shoulders and waves from her pseudo-solid ground, oblivious to the way she's knocked our world off its axis.
So we pick ourselves up. We dust ourselves off. We start all over again.
And out of the blue, as we go through the motions of daily life, one of us mutters, "This sucks. This really, really sucks!"
"Yeah," the other responds, "this sucks."
We don't know what else to say.
Mere days ago we had a brief moment when all was right with our world.
I wish I had taken a picture.
('Nuff said.)
Today's question from "If...(Questions for the Game of Life)":
If you had to cancel one hour of the day, every day, which hour would you eliminate?
I'd eliminate 5 a.m. That's the time I usually glance over at the clock on the night stand and realize I have only one more hour to sleep.






















Thursday, January 21, 2010
Reader Comments (5)
That does suck. I hope everything turns out OK for her in this very vague situation. And you.
I hope everything gets to an okay level quickly for whichever of our girls has an up-side down situation; please get to and from Arizona safely and enjoy every minute with your Bubby.
I'd gladly loose that same hour when Sheba yerps that " morning is here, I have to go outside, I don't care if it's still dark out, I WANT OUT NOW!"
I hope everything becomes right again soon! Enjoy your upcoming time with Bubby, I can't wait to hear about it.
I guess I would eliminate the 5 pm hour. It's just a hectic time at our house and I'm always glad when it's over.
Thanks everyone. Things have a way of working out. I just needed to vent -- especially since all the girls are too old for me to ground or take their cars away so I feel a little powerless. :o)
Our daughter threw us for a loop this week. But as you say, things have a way of working themselves out. I'm going to stay positive!!!