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    10 ways to support school-bound grandchildren

    Kids of all ages will soon head back to school — if they haven't already. Though Mom and Dad play the starring role in supporting their children's educational efforts, grandparents have plenty of opportunities to make their mark, too.

    My daughter Megan is not only the mother of my two awesome grandsons, she's also a teacher. Here are a few suggestions she and I came up with for supporting school-bound grandchildren in ways that will garner an A+ not only from the kids, but from their parents and teachers, too.

    back to school ideas for grandparents

    1. Send a care package to be opened the night before school starts. Consider adding new cozy jammies to help ease pre-first-day jitters (or to cuddle in after a rough first day), new pencils emblazoned with favorite characters, and a greeting card expressing best wishes for a fabulous start to the school year.

    2. Ask Mom or Dad for a copy of the school supply list as well as suggestions on what you can purchase to check off the list.

    3. Offer to buy the all-important backpack or lunch box — but only if the child goes with you to pick it out. Fads and styles come and go in an instant, and if your grandchild doesn't get a box or bag donning her favorite character or what's hot among her peers, chances are she won't be lugging either to school.

    4. Speaking of backpacks, recruit your grandchild to help you purchase and fill a backpack for a less-fortunate child. Most schools will gladly accept such donations for their students in need, plus a handful of charitable organizations conduct backpack drives. Check around in your city for such opportunities or do a Google search for "backpack donations" to find an organization near you.

    5. Request a copy of the school calendar so you can mark important dates and events you may be able to attend, such as the back-to-school open house, fall programs, field days, sporting events and more. The calendar should show Grandparents Day events, too — which, given enough notice, even long-distance grandparents may be able to attend.

    6. Sign up for email newsletters and blog updates from the teacher. Every school should have a website with reams of information of interest to parents and grandparents, and many teachers are now required to keep a blog for those who want to stay on top of what's happening in the classroom.

    7. Email the child's teacher to introduce yourself. This first seemed a tad stalkerish to me, but Megan assured me she and most teachers are delighted when grandparents want to be involved. Parents are given the teacher's email address at the start of the year, so ask Mom or Dad if they mind sharing it with you.

    8. Go beyond simply introducing yourself to your grandchild's teacher and offer to volunteer in the classroom. One of the most active and admirable grandma volunteers I've come across is Grandma Kc from Amaraland. Check out her posts on the topic to see what a difference grandparent volunteers make. Long-distance grandparents who can't help at their grandchild's school can make a difference by volunteering to be a grandparent helper at a nearby school. Just as your grandchild is far away, there are many grandchildren whose grandparents are far away — kids who would be thrilled to have a stand-in for their Grandma or Grandpa (their teacher would, too).

    9. Stock up on postcards or gift cards to send to your grandchild throughout the year to show your support for their hard efforts and your wish for their educational success. Adults often take it for granted children just know we want them to do well in school, but having our wishes in writing to hold in their hands and re-read when studies — and peer pressure — overwhelm can bouy kids in tough times we adults may not even realize they're having.

    10. Show genuine interest in their lessons and encourage further learning outside the classroom. Have an open and ongoing dialogue about what you most enjoyed about classes at the child's age, ask what he's excited to learn or most challenged by, find out what he wants to know more about. Then plan outings related to subjects they're especially interested in. Grandma Judy from GrandparentsPlus2 can teach us all a thing or two about doing exactly that, as she and her husband regularly supplement her grandchildren's lessons with fun and educational activities, road trips and more.

    Back-to-school time can be scary and challenging for all students, from those just entering kindergarten on up to those who've been at it for years. No matter their age, be sure your grandchildren know they can count on you to cheer them on as they hit the books this fall.

    Today's question:

    What was your favorite new school supply when you were a student?

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    Wonderful suggestions, but I'm hesitant about #6 and #7. The teacher may think it's great, but I'm not sure how my daughter would feel. I worry that I'd be overstepping boundaries?

    My favorite 'school supplies' were back to school clothes. That's probably why I couldn't resist an online shopping spree last year and had a 'care' package delivered to my Granddaughter the day school started. Of course, gift receipts were included so returns/exchanges were possible. So much fun!

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterNonnie Kelly

    this a great list, I am going send this to my parents. They would always asking what school supplies they need. Thanks for the post.

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterKathy

    My favorite school supply were "back to school" clothes too. My parents couldn't afford to buy all of us clothes throughout the year so we had a big shopping trip to Sears before school started to get our new clothes. Sometimes we got new clothes at Christmas.

    That was a great list. I print out my granddaughter's school district calendar that is online so I can keep updated on what is going on.

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterDebbie E.

    All wonderful suggestions, Lisa! I think I'd love helping out in my granchild's classroom, from time to time, if it is allowed. I often volunteered at my children' schools, and enjoyed it.

    My favorite school supply was a big box of crayons...I loved to draw!

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterPat

    All great suggestions - all designed to let precious grandchildren how much you care about them. I know my granddaughter, in particular, likes getting care packages!

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterCarol Covin

    Perfect post of suggestions, Lisa! I have volunteered in my grandkids classrooms; from reading to field trip chaperones! Teachers also love grandparents to work with small groups on various skills. I have also joined the PTA's of their schools and get my name on newsletters and teachers' email lists. Both my daughter and daughter-in-law are fine with me being involved. The kids love it, of course. Now....with the twins starting kindergarten, I'm ready to jump in again. Love your nudge to fill and donate a backpack for a child in need!
    Congrats to Bubby as he begins his journey in education!

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterJoan Stommen

    This is a great post and I truly hope it motivates more Grandparents to get involved! Thank you for including me in it. I love volunteering at Amara's school. There aren't many things more satisfying than having your grandchild take your hand and announce to all their classmates -- this is my Grandma! I have had so much fun and my hope for this year as she starts 4th grade is to get more of the other grandparents at her school involved. First PTA Board meeting is tonight!

    As for my favorite school supply -- I always loved getting new reams of paper and new notebooks!

    August 6, 2013 | Unregistered CommenterGrandma Kc

    I'm going school clothes shopping with my daughter and granddaughters tomorrow. I always enjoy going because I usually buy them something a little more expensive that doesn't fit into their allotted budget but they want it really, really bad! It makes me smile and it's ok with mom.

    August 7, 2013 | Unregistered Commenterkelley
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