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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.11.5 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:52:21 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Grilled Grandmas</title><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/</link><description></description><lastBuildDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 11:00:35 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright></copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.11.5 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Marilyn</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 Jul 2010 11:00:35 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/7/28/grilled-grandma-marilyn.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8379806</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/DSC01393 cropped.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1280266646496" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> My husband and I have 6 children aging from 50 years down to 38. Three girls and three boys.<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> We have six grandchildren aging from 29, 26, 11, 10 1/2, 8 and down to 2.&nbsp; Four girls and two boys.<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> No not yet!!!<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Grammie<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> It varies. The 29 (Karen) and 26 (Keri) year old granddaughters work and are going back to college for advanced degrees and live out of town (Austin, TX.)&nbsp; So mainly at Christmas.<br />The 11 year old granddaughter, Haley, and 8 year old grandson, Carson, live out of town in Dallas, TX but I see them about 4 to 5 times a year.<br />The 10 year old granddaughter, Elizabeth, lives in another state, (Atlanta, GA) and I see her about 3 times a year.<br />The 2 year old grandson, Ian, lives out of town (Austin, TX) but a little closer and we see him about 5 times a year.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> So many things. Seeing the world through their young, innocent eyes. The kids running in the house screaming Grammie we're here and giving me hugs that almost knock me over!! The kids looking forward to my special surprises. When I visit them I always have a few surprises in my suitcase that I pull out from time to time during my visit. Telling stories to each other. Playing games and then Grammie Camp each summer. With the oldest two we have quiet lunches on birthdays at times now. But when they were little all the above applied plus I helped each of them make a quilt one year!!<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/DSC01409.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1280266706605" alt="" /></span></span>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Not seeing them enough, having enough energy to keep up with them. Seeing them get too many things. It is hard to buy for them because they have everything. But I've learned that what they really want is your love and your time. <br /><br /><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> I was holding one of my granddaughters in my arms and I looked down at her and I commented on her long, thick, beautiful eyelashes.&nbsp; Using the same loving, admiring tone that I had used she said "and Grammie, you have such beautiful broken ones". She was giving me what she thought was a sincere compliment because that was what she saw! <br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> I have a bedroom full of toys for all ages except for the oldest two and they all love to run upstairs to play with them. I have a large collection of books that we read together. I have two large drawers in my sewing room that are full of all kinds of craft materials. So we are always making something. My husband built a large play center in the backyard and in the summer he has hooked up pipes along the top of it (that he drilled holes in) and when they start swinging he turns on the water and it sprays on them. In Texas, it can get hot and they love that.&nbsp;&nbsp; <br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/TeaParty2.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1280266848058" alt="" /></span></span>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> That can be harder. I do take games from time to time that I think they haven't played before. We have tea parties at Barnes and Noble!! Since I started taking them to look at books when they were around two years old I would take them first to the caf&eacute; in the bookstore. I would order two large decaf hot peach tea in the paper cups, a chocolate covered graham cracker for each of us and ask the clerk to give us demitasse cups. We would then pour our tea in our cups and have a special tea party. Then we would go and read books and they each got to pick out a favorite one to bring home. Because this became so much a part of our visits they would greet me at the door and ask when we were going to Barnes and Noble before they could even say it very clearly. I now have a huge portrait of all of the grandchildren (minus the 2 year old because he wasn't born at the time) above my piano with their tea table, cups and saucers and the Victorian Tea Party Hats I bought them having tea. Many a time as I sit in the living room I will sit and just look at that portrait. I think it is the most special thing that I own.</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/TeaParty1.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1280266778819" alt="" /></span></span><strong>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> That has been harder. The two oldest grandchildren lived very close to me when they were little and they were at our house all the time. Most of their birthday parties and all holidays were with us at our house. The others when they were real small like our two year old is now, they couldn't talk on the telephone or even understand cards and we visited them a lot more. We helped the Moms take care of them when they were babies and toddlers but after they started school we went less frequently. We have now installed Skype on our computer and the other families are installing it on their computers so we will be able to talk to each other and see each other at the same time. I have sent them magazine subscriptions to Family Fun so they could find crafts they liked and they could make them with their Moms and Dads. They loved to get mail and I found some small, inexpensive games and puzzels at Cracker Barrel and would send them to them every month or so.<br /><br /><strong>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> The love of a God that is so in love with them that they can talk to Him whenever they want and depend upon Him to always be there for them. The love of reading and getting a good education. The love of family and a love of our wonderful country. And to know how much they are loved no matter what they do, unconditionally.<br /><br /><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Love</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8379806.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Susan</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 11:00:26 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/7/21/grilled-grandma-susan.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8313621</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/_DSC3144.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279655165079" alt="" /></span>How many children do you have?</strong> I have 4 children.&nbsp; My oldest three are girls and the baby is a boy&hellip;.ages 32, 30,29,26.<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> I have 4 grandchildren.&nbsp; My oldest daughter has two little girls, ages 4 and 2.&nbsp; My second daughter has a 3 yr. old son and a 16 month old girl. <br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> Not yet&hellip;<br /><strong><br /></strong><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><img style="width: 275px;" src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/_DSC1482.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279655416984" alt="" /></span></strong><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> I started out as Nana but it morphed into Nina.&nbsp; So, I am Nina.&nbsp; My husband said he was too young to sleep with a grandma or a granny so&hellip;..<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Well, I see two or more every week.&nbsp;&nbsp; Two live 25 minutes away and 2 are an hour away so it depends on the week.&nbsp; This week I have a date with my grandson to go see a movie.<br /><strong><br /></strong><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> I would have to say that the best thing is that I can be all about love and fun stuff.&nbsp; I make them mind me but that isn&rsquo;t hard because their parents have done such a great job with teaching them respect.</p>
<p>When they come over, I drop everything and just play with them.&nbsp; Of course, I also love to be able to send them home at the end of the day&hellip;.hahaha.&nbsp; I earned that!<br /><br /><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Knowing how hard it is for my girls.&nbsp; Raising kids is just plain hard and when my girls are stressed or afraid they aren&rsquo;t doing it right, then I am stress too.&nbsp; You never stop being a mom.&nbsp; Also, I am not as young as I was when I had kids so I get tired easily.&nbsp; After they leave, I am exhausted&hellip;.haha.&nbsp; I had four and never slowed down but I can have one grandchild and can barely get out the door on time.<br /><strong><br /></strong><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/DSC06604.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279655257859" alt="" /></span></strong><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of </strong><strong>your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> Wow&hellip;..they make me laugh out loud all the time.&nbsp; But, my grandson makes me laugh out loud all the time.&nbsp; He is a funny kid.&nbsp; However, the story that comes to mind is the other day we were shopping in Canton, Texas with my granddaughters and the oldest one needed to go to the bathroom.&nbsp; Well, it was filthy and she looked at it and then looked at me and said, &ldquo;What?&nbsp; Seriously?&rdquo;&nbsp; It just cracked me up.&nbsp; She was still 3 at the time.&nbsp; How do you pick just one thing with grandkids.&nbsp; Everything they do makes me laugh with pleasure.<br /><strong><br />What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> I have an adjustable, vibrating sleep number bed.&nbsp; For some reason, they love to get on my bed and put the head and feet up and turn the vibrator on.&nbsp; Also, we have a golf cart and live in a little neighborhood where you can ride it around all over so, we ALWAYS ride the golf cart unless it is too cold or raining.&nbsp; One more thing, we set up a tent and I cook them a corn dog.&nbsp; Not that healthy, right?&nbsp; But, that is part of being a grandma.<br /><strong><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/_DSC9582.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279655367810" alt="" /></span></strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> Well, I just like to watch them play.&nbsp; They want to show me their toys.<br /><strong><br />How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> Well, since they live so close and they are so young, it isn&rsquo;t hard.&nbsp; But, sometimes I talk to them on the phone.&nbsp; I also talk to my daughters every day.<br /><strong><br />What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> The love of Jesus Christ and unconditional love from me. <br /><strong><br />What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Acceptance<br /><br /><span style="font-size: 110%;"><em>Find out more about Susan on her blog, <a href="http://permanentposies.com/" target="_blank">Permanent Posies</a>.</em></span><br />﻿</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8313621.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Cheri</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jul 2010 11:00:22 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/7/14/grilled-grandma-cheri.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8245085</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Bigger N and P and grandkids.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279059689383" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> 3, two grown sons and a grown daughter, all married, all with 2 kids. They are 38, 35, and 33.<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> We have 6 grandkids, ages: 3, 7, 8, 8, 9, and 12, three girls and three boys: (youngest to oldest) Lucy, Luke, Josephine, Noah, Caleb, and Caitlin<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> No, not for a long time!<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Nandy (Caitlin, the oldest, came up with that name before she was two--she would not hear of grandma, granny, or anything else). The others followed suit. It's on my back license plate on the car, a gift from my husband.<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> The four in-town grandkids, about once a week. They are both busy families and have a lot going on--the grandkids' schools during the school year, soccer, music lessons, you know the drill! During the summer it&rsquo;s a bit easier to work into their schedules.</p>
<p>The two granddaughters, Lucy and Josephine, who live in Milwaukee I get to see every few months or so.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> It's a real gift to have these precious, creative, lively, unique individuals in my life and family.&nbsp; I love building an individual relationship with my grandchildren, connecting with each one through something they are interested in.</p>
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<p><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> I think once they reach school age and begin to have a number of activities that kids can get overscheduled with (they're all good--just so many of them!), it's a challenge for them to find time for us grandmas--we almost need an appointment.<br /><strong><br />Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> Friday night we had a "Cousin Campout" in our big woodsy backyard, complete with a camp fire grandpa built with the grandkids' help, a big tent we set up, cooking out hot dogs and marshmallows for s'mores.<br />Just when we had their tummies full and thought they were about to go to sleep in the tent, a foul smell emerged. Everyone was sure it was our resident little grey fox (or one of the cousins) emitting an odor. We finally figured out Luke (7) had stepped in dog poop and tracked it around the campsite. Many chuckles over that; it took me over an hour the next day to clean the new shoes!</p>
<p><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/IMG_0182.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279057838088" alt="" /></span></span>Second try on their settling down seemed the charm. My husband, son Justin and I went inside and got comfy and had just started watching a movie when the four grandkids ran in the house, screaming and laughing. Caitlin (12) had told them scary ghost stories and they were sure they were in danger outside. They piled in with their sleeping bags and pillows in the family room, we snuggled up, changed our movie to "Fantastic Mr. Fox" and everyone settled in for the night by 10:30.</p>
<p>When I was up in Milwaukee last taking care of Lucy &amp; Josephine while parents out of town for five days, the girls and I were at Walgreen&rsquo;s and asked if they could get a toy and I said yes. Josephine chose a squeezy light-up creature but red-haired Lucy (3) found a Whoopie pad. She sat on it and thought it was the funniest thing she&rsquo;d ever seen. The three of us dissolved into giggles which continued on the walk home and every time one of them sat on it.</p>
<p><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> If it&rsquo;s nice weather, we love to be outdoors. Today I took Noah (8) and Luke (7) to the Oklahoma City Zoo. We play board games like "Scrabble" or "Candyland," card games like "War," "Black Jack," "Go Fish," and just hang out. I also love to take them to the park, or ride bikes with them. If they are spending the night, we pop popcorn and settle in with a movie or a pile of books before lights out.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> Have special time with them doing a craft (I usually bring a craft when I go visit Josephine and Lucy in Wisconsin. We've made sock puppets, made and decorated a Christmas gingerbread house, done Shrinky Dinks, for example), However, THEIR favorite thing when I visit is the Treasure Hunts. I tell all about the treasure hunts in my book, Connect With Your Grandkids. Before making the trip, I save little surprises: like a package of Gummy Worms, new book or Slinky, yo-yo, some little toys in a basket and pack those in my suitcase. When I get there I make clues--and hide them around the house. They love the element of surprise and "the hunt" and always ask for another treasure hunt.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/oc27-002.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1279057887871" alt="" /></span></span>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> I write Lucy and Josephine (my out of town grandgirls) cute postcards that say "I miss you" or "You're Special!")</p>
<p>We also Skype or talk on the phone once a week. I send them a package once a month or two. I take lots of photos when we&rsquo;re together, and have made them a number of albums of our adventures and time together.</p>
<p>The in-town grandkids I try to keep in touch with by stopping by, taking them for ice cream, planning an outing or sleepover, or calling. When they're sick, I send a get-well card. When they do something commendable, I send a "Congratulations!" card.</p>
<p>A special thing I do during the grandkids&rsquo; 10th year is take them on a trip, just the two of us. When the first one, granddaughter Caitlin, turned 10, she picked Washington, D.C. We planned the trip together and went during her fall break during 5th grade. I bought her books ahead of time, a biography of George Washington and Clara Barton, she read on the way, and we went to both of their homes (Mt. Vernon and Clara Barton&rsquo;s home &amp; the 1st headquarters of the Red Cross). We rode the subway, walked to all the monuments, Smithsonian, had tea at the Ritz, took lots of photos, and a wonderful time. When we got home, I helped her create a scrapbook about the trip. Each of the other kids are already thinking about where they want to go. I have to save up ahead of time! Caleb turns 10 in October.<br /><strong><br />What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> A sense of adventure, faith, and a realization that I believe in them and their potential 100%. <br /><strong><br />What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Fun--because I like to have fun and hope we can do that when we're together. And "Listening" because I want to be a grandma who listens to them.<br /><br /><strong>Do you have a website or blog?</strong> Yes, <a href="http://www.cherifuller.com/">www.cherifuller.com</a> and I have a blog on that website. This new website just launched a few weeks ago. Sometimes my blog will be for grandmas with fresh and fun ideas on ways to connect with their grandkids.</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8245085.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Linda</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jul 2010 11:00:15 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/7/7/grilled-grandma-linda.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8190120</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Picture 064.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1278447369186" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> I have 4 girls and 3 step children.</p>
<p><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> I have 16 grandchildren and one on the way in August. Their ages are 24, 22, 20, 19, 14, 13, 13, 12, 12, 11, 7, 7, 6, 6, 4, 3. There are 6 of them that are step grand children but they are mine in my heart.</p>
<p><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> Yes, I have 3 greatgrands and 2 on the way: a little girl due just any time and a boy that is due the last of July.</p>
<p><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> They all call me Maw Maw.</p>
<p><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Well, there are four that are married and have children, now I see them on get-togethers and talk regular to them on the phone or the computer. But the smaller ones, we see them on a regular basis. We have custody of two of them; they live full time with us.</p>
<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Picture 005.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1278447410551" alt="" /></span></span>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> I think the best thing is the special way the grands talk to me. We have always had a good communication system between us and that makes it special.</p>
<p><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Oh, the older kids sometimes seem to be a bit jealous of the little ones, especially the ones that live here with me. But they know I love them and I would do anything for them.</p>
<p><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> One afternoon we were baking cookies and the kids were taking turns in adding the ingredients to the mix. The little boy didn't think he was doing his share and asked, "What do you want me to do, just sit and watch?"</p>
<p><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> Well I have three that come down and they stay a week with me during summer break from school. We try to plan the week out so all of my time is spent just on those three children. Like going to the library or swimming in the pool, just sitting and watching a movie together and just cuddling on my bed.</p>
<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Picture 004.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1278447443605" alt="" /></span></span>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> Don't visit them much; they always come to my house. They love my homemade cooked meals and the sweets I cook.</p>
<p><strong>How do you maintain the bong between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> I always keep the communication open so they can feel free to talk to me about anything and not be afraid of being put down.</p>
<p><strong>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> To respect themselves and other, to be honest, and do their best at anything they do.</p>
<p><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> RESPECT</p>
<p><em>You can connect with Linda on <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pages/Grandmas-Briefs/242479904558?ref=mf#!/profile.php?id=1703530595&amp;ref=search" target="_blank">Facebook</a>.</em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8190120.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Kathy</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 11:01:22 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/6/30/grilled-grandma-kathy.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8133741</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/2010p-town.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277836534486" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> Three daughters by birth and one that is granddaughter by birth and daughter of my heart.<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> I have eight beautiful grandchildren. Connor age 16, Danielle age 13, Tristen age 13, Legacy age 11, Julianna age 10, Kristina age 8, Benjamin age 7 and Quinlan age 6. I have been parenting Danielle all her life.<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> Not yet<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Danielle calls me Mommy and the rest call me Grandma.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/IMG00018.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277836679955" alt="" /></span></span>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Danielle lives with me and I see Connor, Tristen, Lagacy and Quinlan at least once a week. Julianna and Kristina live 1200 miles away but I see them during summer and school breaks.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> Watching them grow and develop. The time to see each child&rsquo;s special abilities. They are each fantastic people in their own ways.&nbsp; Getting to love them without the responsibility of disciplining them.<br /><br /><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Sitting back with my mouth shut when I disagree with things my grown children do differently than I would with the children. I may think I know better but I need to remember these are not my decisions to make unless they endanger the child.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/IMG00010.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277836573659" alt="" /></span></span>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> Watching all the children at Benjamin&rsquo;s birthday party chase each other with the cold water hose.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> Teaching the children a new skill or craft.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> Watching them play and learning about their lives.<br /><br /><strong>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> Most of the children are here often. The ones that live in Florida I communicate with through phone calls, letters and gifts.<br /><strong><br />What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> Love of family community and service.<br /><br /><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Love<br /><br /><em style="font-size: 110%;">Visit Kathy -- and peruse her reams of useful information -- at <a href="http://grandsplace.org" target="_blank">GrandsPlace</a>, "For grandparents and special others raising children."</em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8133741.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Donne</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 11:00:10 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/6/23/grilled-grandma-donne.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:8053299</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Piggybackride.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277218556780" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> 1 daughter, 1 son<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> 2 granddaughters ages 7 and 3<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> No, but my mom is a vibrant great-grandma who loves visiting her great granddaughters. One is named after her, Juliet, and the other is named after her mother, Amelia<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Baba &ndash; my older granddaughter named me when she was one.<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Twice a month I drive 130 miles to their house and spend 2 nights with them. Sometimes they come and stay with us.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Koipond.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277230437479" alt="" /></span></span>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> Having an audience for all my silly antics and laughing more than I&rsquo;ve ever laughed before. There&rsquo;s nothing better than seeing them run down the driveway screaming with joy when I arrive at their house!<br /><br /><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Remembering to keep my lips zipped when I&rsquo;d really love to offer my advice, opinion or reaction. Having to say &ldquo;no&rdquo; to my granddaughters.<br /><strong><br />Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> They both are so entertaining that I laugh all the time. The 3-year old loves me to sing &ldquo;The Little White Duck.&rdquo; Recently, she did an imitation of me singing it and she was hilarious.<br /><strong><br /><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Hulahoop.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1277230600960" alt="" /></span></span>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> We walk up and down our street and visit the neighbors, feed the koi fish in my pond, pick flowers and arrange them in vases and sing together.<br /><strong><br />What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> We play outside and discover things in nature, like seeing our reflection in a puddle or taking a walk and smelling the roses. We also love to hula hoop, jump rope and swing on their swings.</p>
<p><strong>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> My granddaughters call me and ask me to tell them stories. The older one started calling me when she was 3 &frac12;. She&rsquo;ll stay on the phone with me for an hour. We do creative projects together like designing their Halloween costumes. Last year they were both bunches of grapes.<span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><br /></span></p>
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<p><strong>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> I want them to understand the importance of being a family and celebrating joyous events together.<br /><br /><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Fun! We always have so much fun together. I want them to remember our annual Girls Getaways and the little rituals I&rsquo;ve made up for them, like breakfast picnics with candles on the eggs.<br /><br /><strong>Do you have a website or blog?</strong>&nbsp; <a href="http://gagasisterhood.com" target="_blank">The GaGa Sisterhood</a> is a social network where grandmas bond, brag, and benefit. I founded the GaGa Sisterhood in December 2003 after I witnessed the birth of my first granddaughter and went completely gaga!</p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-8053299.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Judy</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 11:00:44 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/6/16/grilled-grandma-judy.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:7990294</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Usthem1-1.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276613430046" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong>&nbsp; 5 children<br /><strong><br />How many grandchildren?</strong>&nbsp; 8 grandchildren -- 6 boys and 2 girls<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>What are their ages?</strong>&nbsp;&nbsp; Ages 6 to 26<br />&nbsp;<br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> 1 (he's 16 months old)<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Grandma -- and the big ones call me Grams!<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Lots!&nbsp; Two live across the street and the rest are pretty close.&nbsp; It's harder now to see the older children because they are so busy working and going to school.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> Watching these guys grow up.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Easter%20Kids.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276613691853" alt="" /></span></span>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong>&nbsp; These new-fangled electronic things they all seem to have!&nbsp; However, they all know how to fix my computer and work my phone and digital camera!!&nbsp; That's a big plus!<br /><br /><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> Our 14-year old grandson started playing lacrosse for the first time this season.&nbsp; Since we have been football, baseball, basketball people all our lives, this is a new sport for us.&nbsp; So my husband asked him how many periods there were in the game.&nbsp; He said, "I have no idea!&nbsp; I don't even know how to play it!"<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/JacksJon.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276613476371" alt="" /></span></span></strong><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong>&nbsp; Play games. For many years, we have yearly special activities for the children and grandchildren. In February we have a 'RED DINNER' for Valentine's Day where all the food is red.&nbsp; On St. Patrick's Day we have a 'GREEN DINNER' where all the food is green.&nbsp; The last Saturday in October, we have a Pumpkin Feast.&nbsp; All these involve an afternoon of competitive games--and often a scavenger hunt of some kind.&nbsp; We've had Bible hunts, hunts with cameras and tape players, and this Thanksgiving we had a scavenger hunt at a huge grocery store--maybe the best one we ever had!!! And in the summertime, we have Camp Grandma--a day camp for the middle-aged children for 1 week. And In December, I always have a Christmas Tea for them.&nbsp; Actually I have 2 teas--one for the &lsquo;big' kids (because they love fancy goodies), and one for the 'little kids' because they like plain, ordinary food made to look fancy!!!<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong>&nbsp; I don't often go to their homes because they are always here.&nbsp; But when I do go, I usually end up helping mom clean!!<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/River2.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276613532185" alt="" /></span></span></strong><strong>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> Years ago, when they were younger, 4 of our grandchildren lived several hours away from us.&nbsp; I used to make cassette tapes and send them to them.&nbsp; I would talk to them by name on the tape, read stories, play music and sing, talk about what we would do the next time they came to visit, maybe something I was going to make for their next visit.&nbsp; My daughter would tell me that when they got the tapes, they would sit and listen and actually 'talk' to me as I was talking on the tape.<br /><br /><strong>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong>&nbsp; The memories of playing together and enjoying each other regardless of what they can or cannot do.<br /><br /><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong>&nbsp; She's lots of fun, and she always thought I was special!<br /><br /><em>You can visit Judy any time on her blog, <a href="http://www.biblegal.com/" target="_blank">Bible Gal</a>. (Tip: Scroll down the page and on the left side you'll find a great recipe for "Fried Egg Treats" that aren't eggs at all. Very creative -- and yummy!)</em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-7990294.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Sally</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 11:00:32 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/6/9/grilled-grandma-sally.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:7901439</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/079.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276050672998" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 300px;">Sally and her granddaughter</span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> Two children, a girl and boy.<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> Oh my, I have eight grandchildren.&nbsp; Travis 17, Shoshanna 15, Latisha 12, Jaedan 11, Cian 10, Taila 9, Elizabeth 8 &amp; the youngest is 5 1/2.&nbsp; I can&rsquo;t name her due to the fact that a government department has custody of her and we have additional guardianship and they don&rsquo;t permit naming of children who are in their custody.<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> Not that I am aware of and hopefully not for many years.&nbsp; Have enough grandchildren to keep track of.<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> All my grandchildren call me Sally; the youngest who we are raising calls me Grandma. <br /><strong><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/007.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276050562081" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 250px;">Sleeping with Poly-Esther</span></span>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> As often as we can.&nbsp; Two of my grandchildren live in Christchurch in the South Island, 5 live in New Plymouth in the middle of the North Island which makes the commute to see them rather difficult.&nbsp; To go to Christchurch we have to fly or drive to New Plymouth.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> For me the most wonderful thing about being a grandmother is the hugs and hearing my granddaughter say to me &ldquo;I love you and you&rsquo;ll never leave me.&rdquo;&nbsp; I love seeing the joy on her beautiful face when she comes home from school, climbs on my lap and gives me the best cuddle in the world. To watch her pretty face light up when she has lovingly picked a flowering weed for me.&nbsp; The list is endless because whatever she does for me is the best part of being a grandmother.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/159.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276050723910" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 250px;">Off to a disco.</span></span>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> The most challenging part for me is the battles that sometimes take place.&nbsp; To make an instant decision on which battle I need to back down on and which one is important enough to keep saying no to. Even when she cries I have to stay resolute in my decision that this time no means no.&nbsp; <br /><br /><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> My husband and I recently had our wedding anniversary.&nbsp; When we told our granddaughter she turned to me and said &ldquo;Grandma you&rsquo;ll have to wear your wedding dress all day.&rdquo;<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> Just to be with them and to participate in whatever they are doing is special.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> Due to distance unfortunately this does not happen very frequently. However, having said that, if I did go to visit, just being with them is what would make me happy.<br /><strong><br />How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> The best way it works for me is by emailing, texting and phone calls.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/267.JPG?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1276050799669" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 250px;">Lunch time at Hororata Christchurch</span></span>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> Raising a grandchild 24/7 allows me to pass on so many things to my beautiful granddaughter that to single out one thing is impossible.&nbsp; I want to instil in her that she can be whatever she wants to be, but to have good manners and be polite to others will go a long way in achieving her goal.&nbsp; To make her understand that not everyone is as fortunate as her but that everyone deep down as good qualities and that she shouldn&rsquo;t judge someone on their appearance.<br /><strong><br />What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> Unconditional Love<br /><br /><em style="font-size: 110%;">Visit Sally on her website, <a href="http://www.raisinggrandchildren.net.nz" target="_blank">Raising Grandchildren</a>, and her Facebook Group, <a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=106640976025804#!/group.php?gid=106640976025804&amp;v=info" target="_blank">Raising Grandchildren</a>.</em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-7901439.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Suzanne</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 11:00:36 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/6/2/grilled-grandma-suzanne.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:7831364</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/liamsgrandma3%20copy.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1275431632149" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong>&nbsp; My children are: Christopher, age 28, Mary, age 26, and Russ, age 50.&nbsp; Russ is actually my husband, but on Sundays, he prefers to be treated like a child.&nbsp; <br /><strong><br />How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong>&nbsp; I have one beautiful grandson, Liam, age 2.<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong>&nbsp; Not unless my kids haven't come clean on some things.&nbsp; I did see a little girl pushing a stroller up my driveway the other day but realized that her baby was a catatonic Cabbage Patch Kid which, I've been told, are completely harmless.<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Liam calls me Nimmy.&nbsp; I initially went by Grammy before Liam could speak.&nbsp; He's never been able to say Grammy and Nimmy just seemed appropriate when he started calling me by that name.&nbsp; My husband says the child is a genius in shortening the name "Nimrod" to "Nimmy."<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/image001-21.jpeg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1275431674642" alt="" /></span></span>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong>&nbsp; I get to see Liam every day because he and his mother live with us.&nbsp; Need I say anymore on that topic?<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong>&nbsp; The best thing about a grandma is that, by the time your grandchild arrives, you truly have become more seasoned in life, in love, and in the understanding of what is important.&nbsp; I don't have to work as hard or as much as I did when my kids were little, and I relish the time with Liam.&nbsp; I couldn't be a stay-at-home mom, but I am a stay-at-home grandmother, for the most part, and I am very involved in his life.&nbsp; I have been there for his first steps, the sleepless nights when he was teething and I am with him when he is sick.&nbsp; If I'd only had that luxury when my children were growing up.&nbsp; I also believe that we are more relaxed about things by the time we become grandparents.&nbsp; We slow the time down and it doesn't matter that there are dishes in the sink or the laundry needs to get done.&nbsp; It'll be there later.&nbsp; What's important is the here and now and the moments with Liam.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/The%20Greatest%20Child.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1275431712393" alt="" /></span></span>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> The most challenging part, for me, is the fact that Liam and his mother live with me.&nbsp; When a child lives with you and he is the central focus in your life, it is extremely difficult to draw the line as to when and when not to interfere.&nbsp; Our daughter has made some good choices and some bad choices in her life - which is why they live with us.&nbsp; Because of my closeness with Liam, I love him as if he were my own child.&nbsp; I have to bite my tongue on occasion and remind myself that he'll be ok if he wears his slippers outside after a downpour instead of his sneakers or if, for whatever reason, he is given cookies at 5 pm when I'm just about to put dinner on the table and it throws his whole schedule off.&nbsp; These are not drastic things and, while it is very hard for me, he will be ok.<br /><br /><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong>&nbsp; Liam and my husband were looking out the window at the birdies and the flowers.&nbsp; Liam commented that the snow was all gone.&nbsp; My husband said, "Yes, the snow has gone away."&nbsp; Liam looked at my husband and said, "The snow has gone to be with Jesus."&nbsp; That caused thunderous laughter and giggles.&nbsp; When the snowman melted that he and my husband made, it, too, had gone to be with Jesus.&nbsp; This all came about after his fish died a few months ago and his mother told him that the fish had died and went to be with Jesus (via a quick flush to Heaven).&nbsp; It is so intriguing and entertaining watching how that little mind works.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> Since Liam lives with me, we do many things together.&nbsp; He is a great help in the kitchen.&nbsp; I make everything fresh and there is a lot of vegetable chopping since we don't eat meat in this house.&nbsp; I chop the vegetables and Liam puts them into a bowl for me.&nbsp; Every time we get to the onions and garlic, he looks at me and reminds me that we never ever rub our eyes after touching onions and garlic.&nbsp; I remind him that garlic and onions are fabulous additions to any meal and will be so until he's about 14 and takes an interest in girls.&nbsp; We'll then stop cooking with them until he snags one, gets married, and starts a family of his own.&nbsp; Then he can eat all the onions and garlic he wants again.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong>&nbsp; Liam likes to make tents.&nbsp; So when I visit him at his tent, we bring along several stuffed animals.&nbsp; Nimmy holds each animal and makes them come to the entry of the tent and ask if they can come in.&nbsp; Sometimes Liam lets a guest in; others, he shuns.&nbsp; Of course, those little shunned animals go away, sulking, heads bent and despondent.&nbsp; Liam then calls from the doorway, "Shaw-wee," and they come running back.&nbsp; Occasionally, I am allowed into the tent and we whisper secrets and call for his mama to come find us.&nbsp; While she is "looking" for us, we giggle, hold our fingers to our lips and deviously say, "Shh."&nbsp; We repeat this game at least 67 times until mama can't take it anymore.<br /><br /><strong><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/Maggie%20and%20Druck.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1275431834888" alt="" /></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 200px;">Suzanne's hubby.</span></span>How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong>&nbsp; Since Liam lives with us, we have a very strong bond with him.&nbsp; It will be very very difficult for us if/when they move out (which his mother is constantly threatening to do when she's not happy about something - and to which I mutter to myself, "GOOD luck with THAT.")<br /><strong><br />What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong>&nbsp; I'd like to pass on the understanding that none of us are perfect and that each day is a new day to try to become better than we were the day before.&nbsp; That forgiveness is the best medicine for ourselves and those who we feel have wronged us, that honesty is very important as it sets a foundation for all relationships.<br /><strong><br />What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong>&nbsp; LOVE</p>
<p><em style="font-size: 110%;">Want to find out more about Suzanne? Visit her any time at <a href="http://www.liamsgrandma.typepad.com/" target="_blank">Liam's Grandma or Maggie in Real Life.</a> <br /></em></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-7831364.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Grilled Grandma: Karen</title><dc:creator>Lisa</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 11:00:59 +0000</pubDate><link>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/2010/5/26/grilled-grandma-karen.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">401512:5063608:7772074</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><strong><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/20May2010.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1274814970399" alt="" /></span></span>How many children do you have?</strong> 8 children<br /><br /><strong>How many grandchildren? What are their ages?</strong> 10 grandchildren, ages 13, 11, 10, 9, 8, 7, 7, 6, 4, 3<br /><br /><strong>Any great grandchildren?</strong> no<br /><br /><strong>What do your grandchildren call you?</strong> Nana<br /><br /><strong>How often do you get to see your grandchildren?</strong> Depends, some almost daily; some once every few months; one once a year if I am lucky.<br /><br /><strong>What is the best thing about being a grandma?</strong> Being able to love the children without being responsible for everything.<br /><br /><strong>What is the most challenging part of being a grandma?</strong> Keeping my mouth shut when I would do things differently than the parents.<br /><br /><strong>Describe a recent time that one (or more) of your grandchildren made you laugh out loud.</strong> Listening to a 7 year old tell her 10 year old sister while preparing to go to Home Depot, &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t think that&rsquo;s appropriate what you are wearing. There might be little children there to see&nbsp; you.&rdquo; The outfit was a bit odd but totally modest.<br /><br /><strong>What is your favorite thing to do with grandchildren who visit your house?</strong> This is a hard one. I spent so many years raising grandchildren that when the others came to visit, they played with the children not me. Now, I mostly go to their homes to visit.<br /><strong><br /><span class="full-image-float-left ssNonEditable"><span><img src="http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/storage/2010.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1274815082611" alt="" /></span></span>What is your favorite thing to do when visiting grandchildren at their house?</strong> That depends on how long I am staying. I may be taking them to their lessons, helping with home work, going to their school performances, fixing their dinner, or again working on my computer while they do other things. My work is never &ldquo;done.&rdquo; I am rarely the doting grandma who makes cookies. We make healthy smoothies instead.<br /><strong><br />How do you maintain the bond between yourself and your grandchildren between visits?</strong> We talk on the phone mostly. One of my granddaughters and I do a blog together. She is 9. She tells me over the phone what to write and I type her words. She uses a fictitious name of course. We write about what she is learning in school, and I search and add appropriate clip-art to it. She enjoys showing her friends her blog. We started this project when she lived with me and continued it even though she is not with me anymore.<br /><br /><strong>What do you most want to pass along to your grandchildren?</strong> Perhaps stories of their ancestors and a feeling of belonging. And of course knowing that no matter what happens, I am always here.<br /><br /><strong>What is one word you hope your grandkids think of when they think of you?</strong> 2 words &ndash; &ldquo;Love&rdquo; and &ldquo;Healthy.&rdquo; When they get older I hope they think of me as the epitome of health and a great example. I want to be spry and healthy well into my 90s. As little children, I hope they just know I love them.<br /><br /><span style="font-size: 110%;"><em>You can visit more with Karen on her blog, <a href="http://www.GrandparentingBlog.com" target="_blank">Grandparents Raising Grandchildren</a>, and her website, <a href="http://www.RaisingYourGrandchildren.com" target="_blank">Grandparents Raising Grandchildren.</a></em></span></p>]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://www.grandmasbriefs.com/grilled-grandmas/rss-comments-entry-7772074.xml</wfw:commentRss></item></channel></rss>